in Residency
15 May 2016
So -- What Happened?
The last time I wrote in here - I was
finishing up a Master's Degree, well into an internship I was hoping
would take me somewhere, and still in that anxious uncertainty of
wondering where I would be in 4 months time.
So - what happened?
It was a few jobs through, a few more internships after that, one hell of a final paper, and a rejection or two from the UK government, but to be able to say this makes me prouder than anything I've ever done in my life.
WE DID IT.
Two crazy Americans with even crazier dreams, moved across the world together to accomplish something that not many folks can pull off. And not even one of us managed it - but we both did.
I've been with my company since July, and got my work visa in January. We're in a new flat in Fulham. We started a music events company and have put on some pretty wild gigs. I work 5 days a week and complain about how busy the tube is at rush hour. I grab a few pints at the local bars around for post-work happy hour. We spend weekends at the parks, or wandering around a market. Life is so normal - and I couldn't be happier.
I've always said I felt like I belonged here. But now, it's a reality. London is my home.
Damn that sounds good to say.
16 December 2014
Halway Through - On Working Towards Something You Don't Know Will Work Out
December already?
I'm HALFWAY FINISHED with a Master's degree!
For how much of a school person I'm not, I should be proud enough to have gotten this far..
Anyways,
I've spent the last weekend wandering around London,
trying to make sense that I actually live here.
I was in Trafalgar Square yesterday texting Heather pictures with
"Just in case you forgot, we live here. Like I can look at this every day because we live here.
How cool is that?"
I'm HALFWAY FINISHED with a Master's degree!
For how much of a school person I'm not, I should be proud enough to have gotten this far..
Anyways,
I've spent the last weekend wandering around London,
trying to make sense that I actually live here.
I was in Trafalgar Square yesterday texting Heather pictures with
"Just in case you forgot, we live here. Like I can look at this every day because we live here.
How cool is that?"

If you've read this blog before, you pretty much know the story.
Blah blah, study abroad, blah blah, life changed,
blah blah, work work work, blah blah moved back to London.
Moving back here though, I did it knowing that it was for and unforeseeable future.
And as much as I absolutely hate not knowing the outcome - with a passion.
A serious hate, I'll tell ya.
There is also something so thrilling about it too.
A serious hate, I'll tell ya.
There is also something so thrilling about it too.
I'm making all of my dreams come true, but have no idea what's to come next.
Isn't that the beauty of it all though?
Four years ago, I didn't even know what London would mean to me,
Four years before that I didn't know how theatre would change me.
Who knows what the next four are going to show me...
Four years ago, I didn't even know what London would mean to me,
Four years before that I didn't know how theatre would change me.
Who knows what the next four are going to show me...
I was actually asked this other week in an interview,
"Where do you see yourself in 5 years?"
To which I gave the absolute worst answer for -
not only was I completely taken back with the realization that I had NO idea where I would be in 5 years,
I then had to mumble up some type of an answer that would sound like I had a plan.
Which I do - but the plan I had 5 years ago is no where near where I am now.
Which I do - but the plan I had 5 years ago is no where near where I am now.
So I couldn't be anything but honest.
Never could I have predicted where I have been in these past years,
how do you expect me to know where I'll be in the next?
Life has taken so many twists and turns,
and I've learned more about myself and what I'm capable of -
which is more than I could ever imagine.
So while I am completely and utterly terrified of the future,
I couldn't be more excited.
Because so far, life has been everything I've ever wanted.

18 August 2014
BRB - Moving To London Right Now, So Here's A Giveaway
I'm gone to do this ^^^ right now,
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17 August 2014
Tomorrow I Move to London
Re-reading that title, it's hard to keep a smile off my face.
I know it's pretty clear on my site to see the excitement and passion I have for what's to come in my life,
but I don't think I have ever been able to fully put into words what tomorrow means to me.
And I'm not sure if I ever will.
Over two years ago, when I came home from London, my world was changed.
I found a place where I felt so connected to, and I just couldn't let go of those feelings.
And I didn't.
I had a dream, I went for it,
and I've never felt prouder or more accomplished.
I've learned so much about myself and my life through this process - the most important thing being that there is no reason not to live your life.
I mean really live.
I don't let things pass me by for any reason - if I want to do it, I make it happen.
You may call me silly, unpractical, ridiculous, stupid even.
But in a year from now, I'm not going to be saying,
"Ugh, I really wish I just didn't do that - I could have used that money for this."
I'm probably going to be saying
"Remember last year when I did that? DAMN THAT WAS AWESOME."
Because of that, I've been able to experience so many things I would have never thought were possible,
and I've found a level happiness that I never knew was reachable.
So now, I take these thoughts, these dreams,
and I bring them with me tomorrow to London to see what I can make of myself over there.
It's been a crazy adventure so far.
And honestly,
I can only see it getting better.
10 July 2014
The Dreaded Visa Process:
UK Student Tier 4 Edition
It's a lot more than just landing in a country and explaining to immigration your plans.
Unfortunately, they care a little more about their country to just let it be that easy.
There are a few steps to this, and it is a few week process,
but if you have your details organized and all together, it'll be smooth sailing ... or flying.

As an international, one of two things must be done:
1) Pay your student deposit, which will be anywhere from £1000+.
This is apart of your tuition, so freak out and think that your £4000 deposit is an additional converted mess to run you broke with your school fees (like I did).
2) You are exempt from paying your deposit if you are getting some type of financial aid.
I'm assuming most everyone reading this will be receiving FAFSA or some type of student loan,
so you will likely fall into this category.
Because you are able to pass through the required payment, all you need to do is email your student admissions and request the form to fill out for your CAS number.
This process took me about a week - you'll need to receive the form to apply for the CAS, apply - which takes no time at all, and once finished, the application goes out to the school to process.
After your CAS is administered to you, you're ready to go - time for the application!
For the application, you'll need a few things:
Passport - duh
Information on any previous visas you have received
Where you have travelled to in the past 10 year - even just for a vacation
I know .. a little unnecessary, yea?
Parent details (DOB, place of birth, etc.)
Your course tuition fees
How much money you have to cover yourself (seen as Maintenance Charges)
University information (don't feel lost on these - they should all be listed together either emailed to you with your CAS or on your applicant portal):
University sponsor license number - a number that the University is identified with
CAS number - the number you applied for
Course title - whatever degree you are receiving
Course level - I don't understand these UK levels much, but as an example for you, my course level is "QCF / NQF 7"
Start/End date - official dates of your course beginning and ending - on the website or given to you
And your university's address
At the end of this, you will have to fill in the points-based-system that the UK follows.
For a student visa, the total will be 40 points - made up of:
CAS number = 30 points
Maintenance = 10 points
Total = 40 points
If some of this sounds foreign to you, well, that's because it actually is.
I don't quite understand it all either, but this is more of a guideline on how to fill it out, not why you're filling these things out - ask a Brit for those answers when you arrive.
Those are the major items you will need for your application - if you have all of those together before you begin, the process will be easy.
Heather and I dealt with impulsive applying and having to figure out what everything means/search for whatever we didn't know we had to find. And trust me - not fun.
Don't worry, the fun isn't over yet! That's just the first part.
After you finish your application, you'll need to submit and pay.
Applying for the visa outside of the UK is the 'cheapest' option,
but don't feel so lucky - it's still £310.
Convert that and you'll see you're paying over $500.
I recommend filling your mind with the excitement of your adventures starting a life abroad,
and overpower your exchange rate rage.
Once you submit and make the payment, you're on to the NEXT step.
Nope, we're not done just yet!
After this, you'll need to make an appointment at your local immigration office.
You'll need to bring:
a printout of your visa application (signed)
A printout of your immigration appointment confirmation email
A printout of your visa payment receipt
Your passport
That was all that I was asked for, but the requirements ask for any other supporting documents, so to be safe I also brought:
My university acceptance letter
My acceptance of enrollment letter
My loans acceptance letter
etc. etc. etc.
The appointment is not as extravagant as you may think.
Basically, they put a stamp on your appointment confirmation email,
take a photograph of you,
and fingerprint you over and over again.
Then you're done!
Oh, not with the visa process. Is that what you thought I meant?
No no, you're done with the immigration appointment.
There is still another step.
Lastly, you'll need to send in all of these documents with your passport.
Yes, physically mail your passport - I mailed mine through DHL, in which I've got a shipping number and details to know where my passport is at all times.
The visa office also sends a confirmation email once they have received your package.
So once it's in the mail, then you're on the waiting game.
Let the UK do the work, and sit and wait for your passport to come back.
And not just your passport,
your passport with a new shiny visa stamp inside of it!
More of a tedious process than a complicated one, if you have all the details organized.
And if you're looking for something much more in depth regarding this process, check out the UK government's visa guideline HERE
Good luck!
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